Jury Duty

Jury duty was fun but after two days of jury selection they dismissed me.

At first, I did not want to be a juror but after I settled into the number one seat in the juror's box I started to get into the case.

I guess the prosecutor did not like the fact that in non-violent crimes I believe, like my Step-Dad. The belief is: “It is better to let 10 guilty people go free then convict one innocent person.”

He was a wonderful man and an excellent attorney!

Here is a 2006 reprint of a story about my Step-Father, Joel A. Scelsi, Esquire, from the Press & Sun Bulletin in Binghamton, NY:

Saturday March 25, 2006
NEWS
Lawyer remembered for helping others, Joel A. Scelsi, Esquire

By William Moyer Press & Sun-Bulletin
At one time, Joel A. Scelsi would have been affectionately called a small-town lawyer, his family remembered Friday.

From an office on Main Street in Endwell, Mr. Scelsi handled all things legal - from family court matters to real estate transactions and criminal defense at court trials.

Mr. Scelsi, 82, died Thursday at his Endwell home after a battle with Parkinson's disease. He had been married for 39 years to his wife, Stella.

"He did a lot of pro-bono work; he just helped a lot of people," said his daughter, Sylvana Dodd of Endwell. "Growing up, people would tell me if you ever got in trouble, go to Joel Scelsi and he'll help you. That was a wonderful part of his life."

One of his highest-profile cases involved the defense of an amateur boxer who was tried in Tioga County Court on a second-degree manslaughter charge.

In the early 1990s, Mr. Scelsi was a defense attorney for William L. Sosenko, then 22 of Little Meadows, Pa., who was tried in connection with the death of Keith A. Baron, then 30 of Apalachin. Baron was punched outside an Apalachin tavern on March 7, 1992, fell to the pavement, hit his head and died four days later, leaving a pregnant wife who gave birth to a son 22 days after the father's death.

Sosenko's trial in November 1992 ended in a mistrial after a juror got sick. A second trial in January 1993 ended with a deadlocked jury. A state appeals court upheld a decision to dismiss the felony charge against Sosenko.

In March 1975, Mr. Scelsi represented a promoter who wanted Helen Reddy, who recorded the song I Am Woman, to come to Broome County for a pretrial examination after the pop singer was accused of skipping out on a concert at the Broome County Veterans Memorial Arena in Binghamton. The matter was eventually settled out of court, according to a newspaper report.

John E. Cheevers, former Town of Union supervisor and chief executive of Cheevers, Hand and Angeline investments in Endicott, knew Mr. Scelsi for many years from the lawyer's interest in community affairs.

"He was always interested in what was going on in the town; he always wanted what was good for the town," Cheevers said. "He was a classy guy. He did a lot of things for a lot of people, but didn't stand up and take credit for it."

Mr. Scelsi was a graduate of Union-Endicott High School, Colgate University and Cornell University law school. Among his community activities was a long tenure on the Vestal school board, winning a two-year term in May 1959 as a write-in candidate.

"His family came first and then his law practice, which was like an extended family," Dodd said. "He loved gardening. He loved cars. He had a Maserati, a Jaguar, a vintage Corvette and an old Cadillac that we called the pickle, because it was green."

Stuffed at PS Resturant

We left Niagara Falls around 9:00 AM and headed to sister and brother Sylvana and Rick's home in Endicott, New York.

On the way we stopped at this huge stove showroom. They had every kind of stove you can think of, stoves that burn corn or coal. I told them I was looking for a stove to burn elephant dung. They laughed but it is a pretty good idea here in Thailand.

We got to Sylvana and Rick's home around 2:30 PM. Rick had gone to the restaurant already but Sylvana was still home.

The restaurant is named P. S. RESTAURANT. CLICK HERE for website.

Now, as you can see in the menu, click here for menu, they serve Thai food. Rick invited us to come try out his Thai cooking.

We rested for a few hours and then went to P. S. Restaurant for dinner. Well, Rick started us out with a little special treat to cleanse our taste buds, then scallops in a sweet chili sauce. After that it was Tom Ka Gai, a coconut soup, then spicy green salad, Phad Thai and two types of fish, Pla Laad Prig and Pla Jien.

All the food was delicious but we had to have some of it packed to go as we just could not eat anymore. Rick and Sylvana stuffed us. We did manage to eat one Creme Brulee as it is one of Rick's specialities.

Now, we had to drive back to the house and try to sleep without rolling over.

We got up late, around 9:00 PM, ate with Sylvana and went to visit folks on our bucket list. (Bucket List is a list of things that you want to do before you die.) We had a nice day visiting our family and friends. We took it pretty easy as we were still recovering from all the food Rick fixed for us the night before.

It is Thursday and we spent most of the day with Rick and Sylvana. We had lunch at a little place named WHEELS in Apalachin, NY. Apalachin was the place the "Apalachin Gangland Convention" took place. I knew the Barbara's and they were a very nice family. Myself, I think they were just a bunch of old friends getting together for a barbecue.

It was a nice estate up on the hill in Apalachin and I have been in the home many times.

We ate dinner at P. S. Restaurant again but this time we ate wisely without getting stuffed.

Friday morning we started our trip to New York as Daeng wants to visit the Statue of Liberty. Sylvana, Daeng and I stopped at Joel, my Step-Father's grave site. Joel was very good to me over the years and was very formulating in my life.

The engraving on the his headstone says it very clearly.